Sunday, July 27, 2008

Erotic Lingerie - A Tool For Seduction

Erotic lingerie is a popular tool that most women use to attract the people they like. Wearing it will make you sexier and more seductive. Men are normally lured into bed by women who wear this type of lingerie.

Bear in mind though that erotic lingerie doesn't need to be worn only in the bedroom. Its main purpose is not only to spice up your relationship in the bedroom, but erotic lingerie can actually be worn at anytime to enhance the body underneath your clothes, especially form fitting ones.

Online stores have a lot of styles as well as colors and of course sizes to offer to both men and women. In terms of pricing, buying from the Internet will also assure you of competitive prices coupled with the convenience of buying with just a click of the mouse, as compared to the hassle of going to the malls. You will find that many online stores also offer great sale prices on items such as the corset, garter belts, babydolls, bra sets and much more.

There are many types and styles of erotic lingerie. There is even intimate apparel made especially for your feet. An example would be spiked heels that are partnered with fishnet stockings, leaving you oozing with sex appeal. Erotic lingerie for men usually consists of tangas, g-strings, and thongs that will make him appear manly yet sensual. Both erotic lingerie for men and for women have stitches and ribbings that are delicately sewn, resulting in your ultimate comfort.

If your goal is to fire up your love life, then it is a must for you to wear sexy lingerie from time to time. Purchasing lingerie and wearing it creates a sexy, yet fun atmosphere that will indeed spice up your love life. A lot of couples experience a total turn on when seeing their partners take the time to prepare and wear something seductive, giving them the signal of the desire for intimacy.

Remember that erotic lingerie was not only created for sexual purposes, but also to enhance your self confidence and self love. Especially for women, wearing lingerie will accentuate your curves and give you a slimmer figure that in turn makes you feel good; this of course results in an increase in self esteem and confidence. Wearing erotic lingerie is not only for the benefit of your partner, but also for showing that you do care for your yourself.

Sunday, July 20, 2008

Lingerie Costumes - How to Live Out Your Fantasy

There is nothing like acting out your fantasy, but many people find it difficult to get in the right frame of mind to do so. Luckily, there are some easy ways to act out your fantasy and that is with lingerie costumes. All you need to do is dress yourself in some fantasy lingerie costumes and in no time you will become a sexy nurse, a school girl, belly dancer, French maid, race car driver, or any other fantasy you have!

You may have a fantasy you have always wanted to live out, but were too nervous or embarrassed to walk inside a store and buy lingerie costumes. Or, perhaps you are plus size and can't find any fantasy lingerie costumes in your size. Whatever the reason you may want to shop the Internet for the lingerie costumes you have been looking for. The really cool thing is that the selection is wide and amazing and you can find anything you are looking for in a matter of minutes!

Once you find your lingerie costume then you need to plan an evening around the costume and so that you can live out your fantasy. You can surprise your partner with the entire setup if you think he will go for it. Or, you may want to give him a little heads up that you have something special planned so he won't be caught blindsided. Then, you need to start working your plan.

The best way to live out your fantasy is to buy your costume and then set up the room in the way you have always imagined. If you have always dreamed of a particular set up or sequence of events then now is the time to set the stage. If you dream of having champagne, a certain type of music to dance to, sexual aids, or anything else, then make sure you have everything on hand in a convenient location. It is your fantasy and you deserve to have everything turn out the way you dreamed.

One fun thing about living out your fantasy in lingerie costumes is that you can change your fantasy at any moment. You can always create the moment that you wanted, change it if you want, and that gives you the power to make any fantasy come true. Also, you can create new fantasies and buy new lingerie costumes to constantly play out new and different fantasies.

Guide to Lingerie Costumes:

When you are shopping for lingerie costumes make sure you go for appearance over comfort. The reason why is that you won't be wearing the costume very long and the way it looks is what's important when it comes to your fantasy. So, focus on changing yourself into whatever you have imagined whether it is a naughty nurse, a school girl or a French maid and then carry the fantasy through. Afterward, you will feel fulfilled, powerful, and eager to try on new fantasies. Just have fun with it and enjoy taking control over your sex life!

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Lingerie - The Perfect Accessory

Lingerie has changed a lot though out the ages but has always remained a means of seduction by showing off the female form in all it's beauty. Although lingerie can be worn for functional purposes we can now have sexy lingerie for every day wear as well as using it to accessories and accentuate our bodies for a romantic evening.

Wearing lingerie with different patterns, colours & styles can set the scene for a very romantic evening. Weather you are the confident type that like to bear all or a little shyer, there are many different styles of lingerie to complement every body shape.

With so much to choose from how do you go about choosing the right sexy lingerie for that perfect evening? The web is a good source and place to view different types of lingerie that can be used to accentuate your body for that special evening. Looking through or searching for different types of corsets, babydolls, camisoles, bodystockings, sexy sets or even costumes will give you a better idea of the type of lingerie that would work best with the mood you are wanting to create.

Corsets can be quite daring but also perfect to define your curves, accentuate your bust and help tuck in your tummy. Babydolls allow you a bit more breathing room while still creating an air of anticipation. Cover up as little or as much as you want with a babydoll. Camisoles are comfortable yet still create a feast for the eyes with different styles and colours that are used. Bodystockings are great if you love the feeling of being totally covered while still showing off what nature gave you. Sexy sets are a classic and a must have for any lingerie drawer. Sexy costumes always spice things up and you can even get a matching outfit for your partner!

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

The Essential Lingerie Guide For Men

Buying underwear for the lady in their life is a scary proposition for most men. Getting married and saying 'I do' comes with about the same amount of fear as wandering round the lingerie section at your local department store trying to work out what a cup is, and what the difference between a demi bra and a triangle bra is. On the one hand there's the worry that you'll buy something that either will be the wrong size (will she be offended if you thought she was bigger, or smaller, than she is?) or that you'll buy something totally inappropriate, and of course the nagging worry that people will think you're merely staring as a result of some kind of strange fetish you happen to have.

The first thing to do when it comes to choosing lingerie for her is to start at home with what she already has. Have a hunt through her underwear drawer and find her favourite sets. Have a look at them and try to note down the sizes of both the bra and the knickers. Wherever possible it is best to spend a few extra pounds and get a set rather than just one or the other. Women seem to prefer matching sets, so just go with it.

Check out features of her favorites, such as colors and styles. Check if it is under wired or not. You can tell this because an under wired bra has a thick wire running through the lower seam under each cup. If the whole thing is flexible, then it isn't under wired.

When you reach the shop, don't be afraid to touch. Many men have an embarrassed look at the sizes and colours, grab the first one that seems right and make a rapid dash for the till. However, remember that this material is going to be worn close against sensitive areas of her body for a long time, (or as long as you let her of course!), so it needs to be comfortable. Is it soft and comfortable? Is it under wired, and if so, does that feel well padded?

One thing to bear in mind is that there is often a world of difference between what men like to imagine their lady wearing, and what women actually like wearing. When choosing underwear, try to aim more for a classic look rather than something more likely to be worn by someone on a dodgy adult video. Try to avoid unnecessary lace and frills, and see-through material is unlikely to be met with as much enthusiasm as you would like to pretend. Similarly, open crotch and things are not the wisest choice.

Something for the more adventurous male to try, and which is likely to be met with more enthusiasm, is to look at the alternatives to the traditional knickers and bra sets. Camisole sets, corsets and babydolls are all types of underwear which are classic, very romantic and effectively combine kickers and bra into one look. The same rules apply however, and you would be wise to avoid buying something more likely to make her look cheap than classy.

One final world of advice: always keep the receipt. If all else fails and it has to go back, why not take her with you and let her help you? It will make choosing underwear on your own in future a little easier, and she'll be only too happy to offer you advice and tell you her preferences.

Thursday, July 3, 2008

What You Need to Know About Bra Shopping

Apparently, over seventy percent of all women are wearing the wrong bra size. This is a staggering statistic, and cannot be entirely down to inappropriate purchases by doting, yet inadequate, male partners. Many women have no real idea of their size, and often find that they buy a variety of different sizes, depending on the style of bra they are choosing.

What many people also fail to appreciate is that if you lose or gain about ten pounds, start or stop exercise, become pregnant or have a baby, your body shape will change and you will almost certainly need a new bra size or shape.

It is actually a very difficult process to measure oneself accurately, and this is where much of the problem comes from. Without an easy or recognizable way of measuring themselves, most women rely on a combination of rough guess work and experience based on the relative comfort of bras bought in the past. The most recommended course of action is to visit a specialist in a women's lingerie department who will be able to carry out an accurate measurement and make recommendations on size and cup.

Of course, there is then the increasingly wide choice of styles, and your selection of bra will depend on a number of factors such as what it will be worn with, the sort of activities you'll be carrying out, the length of time you'll be wearing it and your general size.

Most women agree that under wired bras offer the most every day support. For the men who aren't sure what this means, an under wired bra is one that has a curved length of stiff wire threaded through the lower seam of each bra cup. This helps to lift and support the breast, although it can lead to discomfort after a while, especially if the bra is cheap. Sometimes these wires can start to poke through, and this can be extremely uncomfortable. More expensive under wired bras are labelled as 'no poke' or 'comfort' and have extra padding around the wire to reduce the cutting in it can cause.

The natural alternative to these types, and a much more comfortable bra, is the wireless or soft cup bra. These don't have wires inserted, but instead have a foam or material hammock inside each cup which lifts and supports the breast. This is much more cushioned and along with foam padding provides comfort for longer periods, although it can be a little more expensive.

Of course, if you're planning on wearing an off the shoulder or low cut dress or top then a strapless bra will be required. These have wider and tighter straps running horizontally that mean that over the shoulder straps can be removed. Because of the extra tightness required, these can be uncomfortable over long periods of time, and are really intended much more for the glamour and style than the everyday ordinary comfort.

Another type used in fashion is the seamless bra. These are smooth and contoured with soft padding that removes visible edges so that under tight clothing such as t-shirts and tops, the outline of the bra material is not visible. Depending on the price you pay, these can be reasonably comfortable.